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The six times in the day that music makes a difference to infants and young children


In May, my last post focused on singing to infants 0-9 months in moments of play to increase their musical enrichment and to foster bonding. Often in Music Together classes, I use music to help transition from one activity to another. One of the best techniques is singing or chanting while the children are helping put away the instruments after ​a play along. My favorite is using​ the rhythmic chant, Saying and Doing and adapting it to the clean up time.

“Cleaning up instruments, cleaning up instruments, cleaning and cleaning and cleaning up instruments!”
And, ​​”Helping our friends, helping our friends, helping and helping and helping our friends!”

​The following are ​some ​other ways you can use music throughout your child’s daily routine. Making tasks fun and enjoyable at a young age can help reinforce positive behavior and emotions. This is also important as children learn what is expected of them as valuable and helpful contributors​ to the family.


1. Waking up: Sing a wake up song to your infant ​or young children when you greet them in the morning. I often have sung, “Good Morning” from the musical Singing in the Rain to my children, but they have also heard, Frere Jacques, This is the Day and Biddy Biddy from the Music Together ​library.




2. At Mealtime: Music is a great way to help pass the time when your child is nursing, taking their bottle, or learning to eat. Any fun song will do. Laurie Berkner’s “Valley of Vegetables”, the folk songs “Sweet Potato” and “All Around the Kitchen” are songs that speak directly about food and eating fun. P​l​aying recorded music during meal times is also fine, but remember to sing along when you can to show your child how fun singing is!



3. When changing diapers and potty training: Choose a fun, easy song and sing it every time your child’s diaper is changed or to help them sit on the potty. Pairing a song to an otherwise mundane ritual​, such as​when being changed, helps to create a more relaxing setting and a happy ​time to enjoy The same is true for potty training. ​Singing a song can help define the length of time a child sits on the potty. Enjoyable songs are Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star, Mary Wore a Red Dress (verses can be changed and made up to this tune), and She’ll Be Coming Round the Mountain.


4. While being buckled in: If there is one moment a song may help a potential negative experience​,​ it is getting into the car seat. Babies and children ​often fuss and squirm. My own children did this​ a lot and singing to them helped. Just like changing diapers and potty training, singing a favorite song every time you help your child into their car seat may help calm ​them​ enough to get them buckled in with fewer wiggles. Although any fun song your child likes will do, several travel related songs include, Drive My Car by Laurie Berkner, Driving in the Car from Music Together, and Driving in My Car by Peter Allard.

DSCN05015. Sing during bath time and getting ready for bed: This is a great opportunity to sing about baths, bubbles, washing up, getting dry, brushing teeth and hair​,​ and getting dressed for bed. Make up verses to tunes you already know like “I’ve been scrubbing in the bathtub, all the livelong day!” to the tune of I’ve Been Working on the Railroad. My kids enjoyed their daddy or me chanting Jack in the Box from the Music Together collection while they hid under their towels getting dry. Singing to the tune of Frere Jacques, you can make up a verse: “Brushing, brushing, scrub, scrub, scrub, cleaning your teeth, cleaning your teeth, polish your smile, polish your smile.”

DSCN05066. And don’t forget the lullaby moment​: What a great way to ​finish the day, bond with your child, and say goodnight by singing one last song to your child. Even if ​t​he​y​ are wiggly, singing a soothing song not only help​s​ your child calm down but also is beneficial to focus you as the parent. Singing a lullaby helps to express your love for your child. The songs my children enjoyed when they were infants and toddlers were, Amazing Grace, Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star, and Down in the Valley. As a bonus, having a good rocking chair for an easy rocking rhythm is great for that physical, rhythmic input that babies often crave to help calm their bodies.

DSCN0302Singing with your child throughout their day is a great way to help foster musical appreciation, learn to sing, and increase rhythmic development in their growing brains and bodies. What are your favorite songs to sing to your child? What are your child’s favorite songs? How do you use music to make the most of your days? Please leave a comment on this post, leave a comment on the In Harmony Music of Middle Tennessee Facebook Page​,​ and share this post with other families in our community of music makers!

Music is moral law. It gives soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and charm and gaiety to life and to everything – Plato